“If they don’t need you, it’s okay. You do not live for other people.”— Kyo
Anonymous asked:
For the cheating, I would say that yes they could be redeemed, but that would be the end of the relationship with the person they cheated on. Like that's one of the ultimate biggest betrayals in a relationship and if they were happy in the relationship, and the relationship was built on communication and healthy boundaries, then they could simply talk about what it is that is troubling them in the relationship and they wouldn't feel the need to cheat. So I feel like that relationship would have to end, bc the trust is already weak bc they can't have a conversation, and then it's broken irreparably by infidelity so like fhskdj those are just my thoughts they can be completely wrong and I'm not against fictional couples moving past infidelity completely bc it is fiction and the ugly bits can be written away but like irl/more realistically, that relationship isn't going to heal perfectly from that
i completely agree! i won’t ever tell someone how to react to their own partner cheating, but for me, that’s it, we’re done. if you can’t tell me you’re unhappy & try to work on it with me first, then i can’t trust that you’ll ever come to me in the future if you start feeling that way again. idk, i think a lot of people are afraid to tell their partner “hey i feel weird right now and i don’t know if i want to be in this relationship anymore”, but i would much rather hear that than “i cheated” because that means you took it into your own hands and didn’t consider me, when we could’ve worked that out together (or decided to break up, together). and yeah, i can’t think of a single couple that i’ve actually wanted to get back together after one of them has cheated on the other… like not even one fjkjsd
Two people can see things from two completely different perspectives and both be “right”. Rather than seeking to defend, perhaps seek to learn more about your own perspectives and other perspectives; broaden your scope.
„The key to a perfect relationship?
First you need to learn to love yourself
Before you can love your partner
Be true in every way;
tell him when you’re sad,
Tell him when you feel uncomfortable
And tell him when you made mistakes
Trust
Trust him no matter what
If he cheats he does it anyway
But being jealous can kill the magic between you two
Give yourself a timeout
Sometimes giving each other a bit of space
Can bring you a little closer
And you learn to appreciate the time you have with each other
Never think about breaking up after a fight
Don’t do that
You’re not going to break up.
With every fight and every reconciliation
your relationship
and your love will grow
And last but not least
Love him.
Love him with all your heart.
Show him your love
But don’t be mad
when he shows his in a different way
Everyone has another definition
of love“
-things I learned during our breakup I wished I knew before / c.n
Maybe we romanticized sex when we weren’t supposed to. We got so in love with the feeling of touching that we mistook that as a gesture of love.
Why do people drink alcohol it tastes disgusting
you don’t drink it for the taste. u drink shit like apple juice for the taste. you drink alcohol to get rid of the bad taste that every awful person in your life has left
“All the love you have given to the wrong people—it will find its way back to you.”
What is the point of loving when it always ends like this?
littlesaddudeus-deactivated2023:
“I guess that’s the thing right? Life gives you people you can’t have for lessons you must learn. It’s funny like that. “